From far: Peaceful, so calm, so quite…
From near: Fear, frustration, dreadful dim light..
For some: A solitude filled with bliss , So far from everyday hiss
For some: Devil’s well; where to live, You have to die again and again
For whom: A warm hug, Two glass Champaign, And a beautiful 2 am talk
For whom: Aloneness, anxiety, an extra Sleepless night , and Walk in room like a ghost.Â
When you’re in love, you find yourself in them . Little to little details about yourself you just try to search in front person. If you’re an old soul, you can truly relate with it.
But today’s dating culture is completely different. today’s lovebirds just puzzled between their ‘my stuffs’, instead of making each other ‘mine’.Â
But for old soul, love is just a deep feeling to get each-other after every bitter sour moments. It’s about such tiny stuffs when your liking turn into theirs & vice-versa. It’s when you both can lost into each-others eyes for hours. It’s love when you both spend times talking about goals and life without caring it’s day or night. eventually gaps between you both decreases with the increament of love, trust, feelings, rights. It’s when you not only read each others eyes, but also mind & try to understand each others mindset. It’s really beautiful when each-other understand each-other’s untold pain without a glimpse of word.Â
LOVE is rare to find. It’s not easy. May be some of you are lucky to have such person in life. But for rest of you, if you ever meet the person who has only one reason to ignore all your flaws & mistakes then never let them go. Happiness and peace aren’t about the things we can see, it’s all about what we feel. It’s right and physics also says that opposite attracts. But you know, when you start vibing with their tune, then yes, you’re in love man. Love is not only an emotion, It’s the journey from pointing out each other’s mistake privately and rectify it with the every forward step. May be in this journey one day you’ll get yourself in them. And that’s the definition of love.Â
Make sure, if you get someone like them in your life, just hold them and never let them go.
💕💞
If life is one time opportunity, then why should we waste it with illusions and delusions.
What I feel this time is, we fear that’s why we’re looser. We fear the unsaid, we fear the future, we fear the dark world of our imagination, in fact we fear ourselves. Cause we don’t try to listen our hearts, we just obey the wish of our hearts’: desire. And bro there’s a huge difference between those two things.
We think, fulfilling our desire is right. But in this journey we forget to listen the voice of heart which one is conscience. And with the journey of desire we just go that far away, we couldn’t listen the voice of heart. That’s why when we fail to satisfy our desire, we fear. We fear to loose the hope of being happy; being alive. We die thousand time in thought of it. The pain of not fulfilling our desire makes us that deaf, we couldn’t listen the soothing words of heart. That’s why we run from ourselves. Fun fact is that to serve our desire we run from ourselves. Isn’t it hilarious? Think about it.
I think the reason is, we see others, we observe others. And atlast we get obsessed with their lifestyle and desired to be like them . By observing them we just want to be like them. We forget that we can be happier with our stuffs. As individuals are different, point of views are different, their needs should be. Right…..??
With the desire of being happy like other’s, we fail to be like ourselves; being happy is faraway. We fail to be only one. We just behave like a puppet of desires instead of dancing in own rhythms. That’s why suffer.
The day I understand that, I forget. I forget to worry. I forget to panic. I forget to desire.
That doesn’t mean, I don’t wish, I don’t dream.
I wish. I dream.
I dream to live my opportunity, with my own terms and conditions.
In fact now I’m trying to fly ; to break the cage of “how” & “why”.
And
One day, I will.
After all life is fun.
Then why should I loose it.
Right..?? 😀😉
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